I am not really great at forgiving... it is a flaw... I take a lot of time to realise that I dont want to put up with a situation and then when least expected I snap and move on.... but I never forget... or forgive... I just cut them off... and while I have always felt that cutting off is much better than pretending to be nice to each other I also realise that better than cutting off someone it is best to forgive that someone.... otherwise you end up holding grudges for years (without realising it) and stewing in your soup... Ahh I feel so lighter ......