I am amazed at how much I am learning about myself.... and not all good.... recently one more incident could have snow balled into a standoff/cutting off if I had not stopped, analysed and taken the calmer approach.... I halted my thot process, took time to talk to my friend and realised that there was nothing much to the issue....

The earlier me would have jumped and cut the person off... not the new me... as much as people didnt cut me off when I behaved badly I should not either...

And the old adage "never say never" truly applies in life.... one has to be open to all kinds of possibilities to live life....